Are You Introverted? Here's Point To Ponder.

Introversion is at its root a type of temperament. It is not the same as shyness or having a withdrawn personality, and it is not pathological. It is also not something you can change. But you can learn to work with it, not against it. The strongest distinguishing characteristic of introverts is their energy source: Introverts draw energy from their internal world of ideas, emotions, and impressions. They are energy conservers.

They can be easily overstimulated by the external world, experiencing the uncomfortable feeling of “too much." This can feel like antsyness or torpor. In either case, they need to limit their social experiences so they don’t get drained. However, introverts need to balance their alone time with outside time, or they can lose other perspectives and connections. Introverted people who balance their energy has perseverance and the ability to think independently, focus deeply, and work creatively.

What are the most obvious characteristics of extroverts? They are energized by the external world — of activities, people, places, and things. They are energy spenders. Long periods of hanging out, internal contemplation, or being alone or with just one other person under stimulated them. However, extroverts need to balance their time doing with intervals of just being, or they can lose themselves in a whirlwind of anxious activities. Extroverts offer much to our society—they express themselves easily, they concentrate on results, and they enjoy crowds and action.


Introverts are like a rechargeable battery. They need to stop expending energy and rest in order to recharge. This is what a less stimulating environment provides for introverts. It restores energy. It is their natural niche.

Extroverts are like solar panels. For extroverts, being alone, or inside, is like living under a heavy cloud cover. Solar panels need the sun to recharge—extroverts need to be out and about to refuel. Like introversion, extroversion is a hardwired temperament. It cannot be changed. You can learn to work with it, not against it.

Cited from : The introvert advantage, Marti Olsen Laney, Psy D.


Are you introverted? If yes, you're pretty lucky to enjoy the world at It's best, the only gift from the lord; your miracle solitude mind to have. Believe me, some people didn't like the sun too much. Some people only love the coolest thing that happens in a stormy weather.

Introvert is a combination of temperament and a trait. If you're introvert, and a male, make it a gentleman trait, an alpha male trait that comes from your introverted personality. It's will flexibly fit your introvert temperament and behavior. An introverted alpha male, with a mission to seek many qualities over thousand nonsense things to conquer. Good qualities, you bet!

You don't have to talk too much, you talk only what's important. Save the energy, get used to control yourself, at work, at home, at every circumstance. You are introvert, do you? Then you don't waste your time to know and listen useless stuff. You are introverted? Oh.. You don't get upset at everything that happen in the society, a good introvert will not make himself a, you don't blame yourself, either.

Hence, I know few introverted people are a perfectionist typical to everything they want, they expect only what they want, they sometimes only listen to what they think is right, but consider it a lot, yes, you need more smart consideration, something like being a gentleman with a huge tolerance limit. Your introverted personality doesn't have to set you in a negative scale, open your mind to the world. Know yourself, find a way, I'm sure there is a long way to go.

Listen only to a good tone, relaxing instrument to help you calm down. You know, as an introvert, you don't need to insist yourself to act silly and try to be something that's definitely is not you. It's a failure, for being another thing, and far too much concerning to negative opinions. Now, imagine a tranquil atmosphere, imagine a deep of the sea, the blue sea... To where the world becomes lonely, the moon shines to your eye, the mightiest peacefully to achieve.

You are introverted, you will analyze almost everything to get a coherent result, a result that satisfies your internal mind with some consideration. As an introvert, seeing both general picture and the detail part are definitely things you should do repeatedly. You'll be struggling for what you want, that's it, a great introvert action to go, because you are consistent about everything you love. Moreover, you know, life is a struggling stage. You'll take it or leave it.

Why all this? Why? Because you are an introvert, you have a meaningful life, and you are, a meaningful person with a good aura. And you love to know that one. Wait, is that a grin on your face? Oh.... Introvert.